How to ask a girl to a movie

How to ask a girl to the movie


There are many ways to ask a girl out. However, it's very different to ask a girl to the movies (a dark place, alone with a strange guy) than it is to go to a dinner date. Here's how to approach the matter if you're specifically aiming to watch a movie with her.

Glowing Steps

1. Ask her what kinds of movies she's seen, which are her favorites, or what's the last movie she saw. This is a good conversation starter that can ease into your asking her to see a movie with you.
   
2. Schedule to go to the movies with a group of people, preferably including people she knows, and invite her to come as part of the group.
   
3. Buy tickets to a showing that you think she'll enjoy and that's playing at time you know she's free. Don't show her the tickets or say: "I've got an extra ticket. I thought I was going to be able to get a friend to go with me, but that didn't work out, and I'm dying to watch this movie. Want to go?". It will make her feel like she's a last resort and she wont have a good time there. Say something like "hey, are you interested in going to the movies with me and a few friends?" It's not too obvious that you like her but at the same time it makes her feel like you want to go with her in particular.
   
4. Offer to take her out for ice cream afterwards and talk about the movie.
   

Glowing Tips

• Always ask her what kind of movie she wants to see before automatically choosing a chick flick.
  
• Avoid anything too serious, intellectual, or depressing. Go for something light and fun.
  
• Have a specific movie in mind plus a backup in case she’s seen choice A or isn’t interested in it.
  
• Buy the tickets and popcorn, and if you are well-to-do, show off a little and buy drinks.
  
• Movies are always a nice lead up to dinner, and dinner is a nice lead up to second dates.
  
• Don't try and make a pass at her during the movie. Just because its dark doesn't mean she'll allow it.
  
• Don't put your arm around her unless she leans towards you! Then that might be a sign that she's into you or she wants you to put your arm around her.
  
• After the movie, give her a small little surprise like giving her something related to the movie like a note book which has a picture of the movie or get something small and unique like a keychain Click here for unique and romantic keychains
  
  
  

Glowing Warnings

• If the woman you are pursuing thinks you are not her type, don't push it. You would be surprised who carries a can of mace nowadays. Don't be discouraged, there are millions of girls which you'll meet in your life, and there's going to be some of them you'll have romantic feelings towards. You never know, one of those will love you back.
  
• Although going to the movies might seem popular, if you are in your teen years, you should probably decide on a different location if it is your first date. If you are at the movies, you can not really talk to your date unless you interrupt her during the movie. Try going to a coffee shop or some place else where you can talk to her so you can meet her and know more about her before going to the movies.
  

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