Ask a girl out at school

How to ask a girl out at school

So there's this girl you like, but you want to make sure they like you first.....

Glowing Steps

1. Establish a more-than-just-friends relationship. Start by asking her for something to play on, like if you are in her class, ask her for a pencil or eraser. If she's slightly interested, she might play about, teasing you for it. Don't worry, it's not that she doesn't like you. She expects you to play along, so maybe walk off in mock sulk, don't do it too heavily though. She might start to think you are weird if you do.
   
2. Compliment her, but be careful. Unless they are desperate, they might think you are desperate or making something too obvious. So maybe tell her you like her new hairstyle but then go behind her and mess around with it, spice it up. She'll like your courage to go play about with her hair but make sure she doesn't have dandruff or lice because although you might not be too bothered, she will get embarrassed and scared to go near you. Also, don't lay it on like you've seen in the movies: "I like your handbag.". No guy, in school, will honestly care about a handbag. Something you might truly like you can compliment on.
   
3. Start a ball game (not literally). Be a little far away and look at her, admire her. She'll catch your gaze and look at you. Look away suddenly but keep an eye out for her looking back at you. If she is, get up and walk past her, possibly giving her a little smile as you go. If she isn't then if you play football or basketball you might want a gang of guys ready to shout "Nice one"s or stuff like that. She'll give you a look. Then follow above.
   
4. Have chats with her. Ask her if she has any pets and find out some interesting things. Make sure she knows you inside out as well.
   
5. Move in closer, be alone and look down. Look up at her eyes, look lost in her world for a second, and then say "I,(pause),like you. So...(cough)..Will you go out with me" While you say this look down. Look up when you say me and smile questioningly. If that isn't your style, there is another way to ask a girl out. All you have to do is walk up (make sure she's alone), and ask her to go out with you in a confident (but relaxed!) manner.
   
6. Don't try too hard, girls aren't stupid, they can tell when you get desperate. Be relaxed and confident in yourself.
   
7. Don't just become friends with her, become friends with all of her friends, as relationships are made and broken on her friends opinions.
   
8. If she says no she means NO. Just back off for awhile, leave her to cool down, but don't give up complete hope.
   
9. Be confident, not cocky. The difference is there, and very noticeable for girls. Make jokes and be self-confident; women love it when men make them laugh.
   
10. When the time comes to ask her out, wait for the opportune moment. Trust your instincts; they will tell you when the time is right. As mentioned earlier, it's probably best not to do it in front of her friends or in front of your friends. It's easier for both of you if you are alone.
    

Glowing Tips

• Don't come on too full or it'll freak her out.
  
• Don't treat her like she's desperate, or like she'd do anything for you.
  
• Act like you really think you have to work for her to your friends. They might do some secret hinting.
  
• Look out for her as well as yourself, defending her is a good way of hinting at your interest while also being a decent person as a whole. Make one of your friends jokingly insult her and then go and defend her. It really works if its your best friend. It shows your willing to stand up to him for her.
  
• Give her time to think it out and let her think that you really like her.
  
• If you want to make her curious, send her love notes in her locker. Remember you want to be mysterious, give hints in your letter, but don't tell her.
  

Glowing Warnings

• Make sure she hasn't got a boyfriend. (especially if he is bigger than you)
  
• Don't ask her in front of friends, especially if she is shy.
  
• Don't tell the world if she's not ready. She might have some things she has to tie up first.
  
• Don't ask super invasive questions about her. Be nice, not a stalker.
  
• If you want to ask a girl out to a dance, disco etc and she says no, do not immedieately go and ask someone else out. This will lower your social levels and girls will not want to go out with you because the will think you are desparate.